What the Gurus Didn’t Teach Us About Authenticity

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The idea of living genuinely, true to oneself, and free from the shackles of societal expectations has captured the imagination of many of us seeking a more fulfilling existence. Yet, amidst all the teachings, there are aspects of authentic living that the gurus often fail to mention.

Gurus seldom emphasize the challenging journey that accompanies authentic living. It is often portrayed as a simple path to follow, as if authenticity can be achieved effortlessly. In reality, living authentically requires introspection, self-discovery, and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths about oneself. It demands courage to break free from the molds society has imposed, which can be met with resistance and even isolation from those who do not understand or support the pursuit of authenticity.

Secondly, they rarely acknowledge the potential conflicts that may arise between living authentically and fulfilling one’s responsibilities. Authenticity encourages individuals to prioritise their own desires and passions, sometimes at the expense of relationships or societal obligations. While it is essential to honor one’s true self, it is equally important to navigate the balance between personal authenticity and the interconnectedness of our lives with others. It requires skillful communication, empathy, and understanding to maintain harmonious relationships while staying true to oneself.

Gurus often overlook the evolving nature of authenticity. Authentic living is not a fixed destination but rather a continuous process of growth and self-reflection. What feels authentic at one stage of life may change as we gain new experiences, perspectives, and insights. The journey towards authenticity requires adaptability and an open-minded approach, as we must be willing to challenge and redefine our understanding of ourselves as we evolve.

Finally, they sometimes neglect to mention the vulnerability inherent in authentic living. Opening ourselves up to genuine self-expression and embracing our truest selves can leave us exposed to criticism, rejection, and judgment. True authenticity invites both acceptance and rejection from the world, as not everyone will resonate with or understand our choices. Embracing vulnerability, therefore, becomes an essential aspect of authentic living—a willingness to be seen and accepted for who we truly are, even in the face of potential discomfort.

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A fifty-something woman who is passionate about living authentically and writing. Author of Coming Out Coming Home.

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